Archive for October, 2009
Lessons from Ancient Arches
My wife and I just returned from a vacation visiting our National Parks in Utah and Arizona – Zion, Bryce, Arches, Natural Bridges and the North Rim and South Rim of the Grand Canyon. It was an incredible, humbling trip.
One reason for going to Utah was to visit Arches National Park and see in person the arches that inspired us to use them in our promotion materials. Let’s take a few minutes to consider these magnificent Arches, and in particular, Delicate Arch and Broken Arch.
One thing that our National Parks do right away is to make us realize how small and insignificant we are compared to the wonders of nature and God’s majestic creation. We think in terms of weeks, months, years and a lifetime. But out in the National Parks, the measure of time is thousands and millions of years. There are over 2,000 arches in Arches Park, all naturally made over millions of years from the elements – wind, gravity and erosion, out of various types of stone – largely sandstone. When you stand beneath Delicate Arch or the equally impressive Landscape Arch, you get a sense of the scale we’re talking about. Words and pictures do little to describe what can only be experienced to get a fuller comprehension of these formations of terra cotta stone.
Beyond evaluative and facilitative… is Transformative Mediation
by Candice Cook & Michael Zeytoonian
When a layman hears the term, “mediation,” he or she generally conjures up in their mind someone who will serve as a third party adjudicator, like an arbitrator, to resolve a dispute. The notion is that a mediator will ask questions of the disputing parties and help them come to an agreement. This is only one type or style of mediation known as facilitative mediation. For many years, it was the most common form of mediation. In “The Promise of Mediation”, by Bush & Folger, however, another style was introduced: transformative mediation.
The goal in a transformative mediation is two-fold. Obviously, the first goal is to resolve the conflict, the main goal of any mediation. But the second goal, a deeper goal, is to accomplish a real shift or change in the relationship between the disputants. Transformative mediation earned its label because of its capability to transform the relationship between the parties. Though they enter as opponents in their issues and position, they exit as allies joined by the solution.

