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Archive for June, 2010

The crisis of child abuse by priests of the Roman Catholic Church and the cover-ups by their bishops was the focus of a recent Time magazine cover story (June 7, 2010).  The story caught my interest for several reasons:  I am a committed Christian, an active member of the oldest national Christian church, the Armenian Orthodox Church, and a former seminarian who gave serious though to becoming a clergyman.  And my first job out of law school was prosecuting child abuse cases in Westchester (NY) County.

But also, I was interested in the story because I am a lawyer and mediator, dedicated to the non-adversarial resolution of dispute resolution.  I read the article with sadness, feeling compassion for the victims, but also for the Catholic Church dealing with a difficult issue and for the stakeholders – the faithful of the Catholic Church and all those other priests who have done no wrong, but have to live with the stigma of the wrongdoing that touches their ministries as well.

The article mentioned the two approaches that people are presently using to address this crisis:  either going through a long litigation path that begins with the state Attorney General’s office and is thereafter driven by private attorneys or an internal process within the hierarchy of the Church.  The first is tremendously draining and damaging to those victims who can even afford the legal fees; the second has failed to gain the trust and confidence of the people because it has often done little more than transfer or re-assign the suspected priests and keep the matter as quiet as possible. Read the rest of this entry »

Armando Galarraga, Pitcher for the Detroit Tigers

Armando Galarraga will likely never again pitch a perfect game as he did on June 2, 2010.  The law of averages doesn’t favor it, and no one has ever done it.  So in getting what should have been the final called out of a perfect game wrong, umpire Jim Joyce took away something that no amount of money could ever correct.  And even though there was overwhelming support in the sports world for the Commissioner of Baseball to turn a lose-lose situation into a win–win, overturn the ruling on the field and reinstate the perfect game, most of us also recognized that this particular commissioner lacked the courage to make that decision.

So how could this situation, a problem that needed to be solved, get fixed in a way that restored order, justice and peace in the baseball world, when there was no legal mechanism for doing so?  When the law cannot give you the solution the circumstances need, it reverts back to the people involved and spirit of making things right to take the situation into their hands, go outside of the box and turn typical into transformative.

That is exactly how this problem was fixed, by the graciousness by Mr. Galarraga, the act of apology by Mr. Joyce, and an act of collective acceptance and reinstatement by the community, represented the next day by the players and Detroit Tigers fans at the following game.

The next time some macho person suggests that apologies are for wimps, remind them of the more than perfect, perfect game of June 2, 2010.  Tell them that the one and only way that the situation could be corrected was by two grown men choosing to do the opposite of ego, and rise above ineffective position-taking responses of who is right and who is wrong.

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